CONFIDENTIAL PRE-SESSION QUESTIONNAIRE

This questionnaire typically takes about 15 minutes to complete thoughtfully.

Thank you for taking the time to complete this questionnaire.

This experience was designed to create a safe space for honesty, healing, deeper connection, and meaningful conversation. Your responses will help us thoughtfully and prayerfully curate the session around the real needs and experiences of the couples attending.

Some questions are personal and reflective. You are not expected to answer perfectly. Simply answer honestly.

Your responses will remain confidential and will only be used to help facilitate the experience. Anonymous themes or questions may be referenced during the session without identifying anyone personally.

SECTION 1: ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE

1. How long have you been married?

2. Are you currently serving in ministry together?

3. Which best describes your current season of marriage?

4. If you had to describe your marriage in one word right now, what would it be?

SECTION 2: CONNECTION & COMMUNICATION

5. Do you feel emotionally connected to your spouse?

6. Have you ever felt lonely while married?

7. When conflict happens, how do you usually respond?

8. Have you stopped bringing certain things up because you no longer believe they will change?

9. What are you carrying emotionally in this season that your spouse may not fully understand?

10. What part of you has gone quiet in this marriage?

SECTION 3: INTIMACY & VULNERABILITY

11. Do you feel loved and desired by your spouse?

12. Are you satisfied with the level of intimacy in your marriage?

13. Do you feel emotionally connected during physical intimacy?

14. Is it easy for you to talk openly about intimacy with your spouse?

15. What emotion do you suppress most in your marriage?

16. What is one area where you desire deeper connection?

SECTION 4: MINISTRY & PRESSURE

17. Has ministry ever placed strain on your marriage?

18. What area has been most affected?

19. Have you ever felt overshadowed, overlooked, or unsupported in your marriage or ministry relationship?

20. Have you ever compared your value, gifting, or impact to your spouse?

21. Do you feel your marriage gets the best of you, or what is left of you after ministry, work, and responsibilities?

22. What pressure do you carry that your spouse may not fully understand?

SECTION 5: RELATIONAL PATTERNS & REFLECTION

23. During conflict, which best describes you?

24. What unhealthy pattern keeps repeating in your marriage?

25. What are you afraid could happen if nothing changes in your marriage?

26. Think back to a season when your relationship felt lighter, healthier, or more connected. What was different then?

27. What do you miss most about the earlier version of your relationship?

28. What is one thing you still deeply admire about your spouse?

29. What do you feel your marriage needs most right now?

SECTION 6: OPTIONAL QUESTIONS

30. What is one question about marriage, intimacy, leadership, or ministry that you wish someone would answer honestly?

31. Is there anything you are carrying privately that you would like us to be aware of while facilitating this session?

32. What are you hoping to receive from this experience?

Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability.

Our prayer is that this experience creates space for deeper understanding, healing, communication, reconnection, and renewed alignment in your marriage and ministry journey together.

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