SOFI Identity Profile Guide

Discover Your Identity Profile
~3 minutes. 20 questions.

Immediate insight.

You’re already successful — but success built on a borrowed identity never feels like home.
This quick discovery will show you where you are on the path from programmed performance to source-aligned living — and exactly what that means for your next step.

What you’ll get:

Your identity profile with a simple score and explanation
The #1 pattern that’s creating friction for you right now
Clear next step (no fluff, just what to do next)
A free PDF of Chapter 18: Sword of Decisions — to help you start making stronger, source-aligned decisions immediately

How it works:

Choose the option that best reflects your experience.

Be honest; there are no wrong answers — only clarity.

You must complete the entire form and click the button at the end.

Privacy:

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Question 1: When making major life decisions (career moves, relationships, investments), how do you typically feel? *

Completely Lost - I have no idea what I actually want; I'm paralyzed by options

Heavily Conflicted - I know what others expect but not what I truly want

Somewhat Unclear - I can make decisions but often second-guess them

Mostly Clear - I usually know what I want with some external influence

Crystal Clear - I know exactly what I want and why it aligns with my true self

Question 2: How often do you make choices based on what others expect of you rather than what you genuinely desire? *

Always: My decisions are primarily driven by others' expectations

Usually: I consider others' opinions more than my own desires

Sometimes: I balance external expectations with personal desires

Rarely: I prioritize my desires while considering others' input

Never: My decisions are fully aligned with my authentic desires

Question 3: When you achieve a goal, how fulfilling does it feel? *

Empty: Success feels meaningless or hollow

Disappointing: Achievement brings brief satisfaction but feels unfulfilling

Moderately Satisfying: Some goals feel rewarding, others don't

Very Satisfying: Most achievements feel aligned and meaningful

Deeply Fulfilling: Success consistently brings profound satisfaction and purpose

Question 4: How connected do you feel to your life's purpose or deeper calling? *

Completely Lost: I have no sense of purpose or direction

Searching: I'm actively looking but haven't found clarity

Emerging Sense: I have some ideas but lack conviction

Fairly Clear: I understand my purpose and act on it sometimes

Crystal Clear: I live with absolute clarity and alignment to my purpose

Question 5: How well do you understand who you are at your core? *

No Idea: I feel like a stranger to myself

Very Confused: My identity shifts based on circumstances

Somewhat Clear: I understand parts of myself but not others

Mostly Solid: I have a strong sense of self with minor uncertainties

Completely Clear: I deeply understand my values, strengths, and identity

Question 6: When describing yourself to others, how authentic does it feel? *

Completely Fake: I present a persona that isn't me

Mostly Inauthentic: I exaggerate or downplay parts of myself

Somewhat Authentic: I'm genuine in some contexts but not others

Very Authentic: I'm mostly myself with minor adjustments

Fully Authentic: I show up as my true self in all situations

Question 7: How consistent is your sense of self across different areas of life (work, relationships, personal time)? *

Completely Fragmented: I'm a different person in every context

Very Inconsistent: My identity shifts significantly based on who I'm with

Somewhat Consistent: I maintain core values but adapt significantly

Mostly Consistent: I'm generally the same person with minor adjustments

Fully Integrated: I'm the same authentic person regardless of context

Question 8: How much do you trust your own judgment and decisions? *

Zero Trust: I constantly doubt and question myself

Low Trust: I second-guess most decisions

Moderate Trust: I trust myself in familiar areas but doubt in new situations

High Trust: I generally trust my judgment with occasional doubts

Complete Trust: I have unwavering confidence in my decision-making

Question 9: How aligned is your current success with what truly matters to you? *

Completely Misaligned: My achievements feel meaningless

Mostly Misaligned: I'm succeeding at things I don't care about

Somewhat Aligned: Some achievements matter, others feel hollow

Well Aligned: Most of my success aligns with my values

Perfectly Aligned: Every achievement reflects what deeply matters to me

Question 10: When you think about your definition of success, whose voice do you hear? *

Others' Voices Only: Society, parents, peers define my success

Mostly Others: I follow conventional success markers reluctantly

Mixed Influences: I blend others' expectations with personal desires

Mostly My Own: My definition with minor external influences

Purely My Own: Success is entirely defined by my authentic values

Question 11: How sustainable does your current path to success feel? *

Completely Unsustainable: I'm burning out and can't continue

Very Draining: Success requires sacrificing wellbeing

Moderately Taxing: Some sacrifice required but manageable

Mostly Sustainable: Success feels energizing most of the time

Fully Sustainable: My path to success nourishes and energizes me

Question 12: How much does your work or daily activity reflect your unique strengths and talents? *

Not at All: I'm underutilizing my abilities

Minimally: Occasionally I use my strengths

Partially: Some activities align with my talents

Significantly: Most of my work leverages my strengths

Completely: Everything I do maximizes my unique gifts

Question 13: How often do you engage in behaviors that undermine your goals (procrastination, self-doubt, avoidance)? *

Constantly: Self-sabotage dominates my actions

Very Frequently: I regularly undermine myself

Occasionally: Some patterns interfere with progress

Rarely: Minimal self-sabotage with strong awareness

Never: I consistently act in alignment with my goals

Question 14: When success or opportunity appears, how do you typically respond? *

Reject/Run: I actively avoid or sabotage opportunities

Fear Response: I feel unworthy or scared and often back away

Ambivalent: I'm uncertain and hesitate significantly

Cautiously Accept: I move forward with some hesitation

Fully Embrace: I confidently seize opportunities

Question 15: How aware are you of your limiting beliefs and subconscious programming? *

Completely Unaware: I don't recognize my patterns

Vaguely Aware: I sense patterns but can't identify them

Somewhat Aware: I recognize some patterns but not their origins

Very Aware: I understand most of my limiting beliefs

Fully Conscious: I deeply understand and actively reprogram my patterns

Question 16: How much do past failures or traumas influence your current decisions? *

Completely Controlled: Past experiences dictate all decisions

Heavily Influenced: Past pain significantly limits my choices

Moderately Influenced: Some decisions are affected by past experiences

Minimally Influenced: I've largely processed and moved beyond past limitations

Not Influenced: I'm free from past conditioning and make empowered choices

Question 17: How much do you need others' approval or validation to feel confident in your choices? *

Completely Dependent: I can't decide without others' approval

Very Dependent: I heavily rely on external validation

Moderately Dependent: I seek input but can decide independently sometimes

Minimally Dependent: I value others' input but trust myself primarily

Fully Independent: I make decisions based on internal authority

Question 18: When receiving criticism, how do you typically react? *

Devastated: Criticism destroys my confidence

Very Defensive: I take it personally and feel attacked

Somewhat Reactive: I'm hurt but can sometimes gain perspective

Fairly Resilient: I consider feedback objectively most of the time

Completely Grounded: I evaluate criticism without internalizing it

Question 19: How comfortable are you making unconventional choices that others might not understand? *

Extremely Uncomfortable: I conform to avoid judgment

Very Uncomfortable: Fear of judgment heavily influences me

Somewhat Uncomfortable: I struggle but occasionally go my own way

Mostly Comfortable: I follow my path despite others' opinions

Completely Comfortable: I confidently live authentically regardless of others' views

Question 20: How strongly do you trust your own inner knowing over external experts or authority figures? *

Never Trust Self: I always defer to experts

Rarely Trust Self: I heavily prioritize external authority

Sometimes Trust Self: I balance internal knowing with external guidance 3

Usually Trust Self: I value my intuition while considering expert input

Always Trust Self: My inner authority guides me while I gather information

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