Q: How do you feel about who you are these days—*not* what you do?
A) Honestly, I don’t even know anymore.
B) I’m that girl… until I compare myself.
C) I’ve been through too much to not know who I am.
D) Depends on the day. God says I’m enough—but I forget.
Q: What’s your most common emotional cycle right now?
A) Overthinking > Doubt > Guilt
B) I’m fine > I explode > I isolate
C) I’m always tired, even when I rest
D) I’m actually angry, but I call it 'discernment'
Q: How’s your relationship with God right now?
A) I’m trying—but I don’t hear much.
B) I know what He said. I just haven’t moved.
C) I’m in, but I’m also a little annoyed at Him.
D) I miss the connection I *used to* feel.
Q: Which one hits hardest for you right now?
A) I keep giving to people who give me crumbs
B) I want softness, but my people are a hard test
C) I’m not dating trash, but it’s still not giving peace
D) I don’t even know how to name my needs
Q: How do you know you're reaching your limit?
A) I start checking out emotionally
B) I cry over random stuff
C) I low-key want to disappear
D) I just keep pushing until I crash
Q: Pick the most accurate sentence for right now:
A) I’m doing a lot, but I’m not sure why
B) I have a calling—I just haven’t committed
C) I have gifts, but I still feel overlooked
D) I want to show up, but I’m scared I’ll mess it up
Q: Which one is closest to your current routine?
A) I binge devotionals and still feel empty
B) I pray daily… then fall into the same patterns
C) I journal and talk to God like He’s my homeboy
D) I ghosted my spiritual life and don’t know how to come back
Q: What’s your go-to response when things fall apart?
A) I overanalyze everything looking for “the sign”
B) I pray and over-function
C) I vent in the group chat and block him (again)
D) I retreat and say “God’s still working on me”
Q: Which statement feels a little too familiar?
A) I say yes, then immediately regret it.
B) I expect too much from people, then feel disappointed.
C) I ghost when I’m overwhelmed.
D) I don’t even know what my boundaries are anymore.
Q: When things are finally going right, you tend to...
A) Assume it’s temporary and brace for impact
B) Tell yourself you don’t deserve it
C) Distract yourself with drama
D) Try to over-deliver to keep it from falling apart
Q: What’s your most common way of coping lately?
A) Numbing (food, TV, spending, etc.)
B) Performing (achieving, fixing, proving)
C) Venting (text threads, subtle subbing, prayer rants)
D) Avoiding (ignoring texts, disappearing, zoning out)
Q: When life hits hard, what’s your relationship to support?
A) I don’t like needing anyone—it’s hard to trust people
B) I show up for everyone else but feel invisible
C) I share stuff... but only after I’ve already processed it
D) I want help, but I don’t know what to even ask for
Q: What would someone overhear if they caught your inner monologue at 11:47pm?
A) “God, please just tell me what to do…”
B) “Ugh. Why did I let them get to me again?”
C) “I do everything for everybody. Who takes care of me?”
D) “I’m fine.” (You’re lying.)
“I have too many ideas and still no clear direction.”
F) “I shouldn’t call him, right? RIGHT??”
G) “Oop—did I just cuss in a prayer?”