Splendid Mind Assessment

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When you walk into a room full of strangers, what's your first thought? *

Please don't notice me.

I hope I fit in.

I wonder who I'll meet.

They're lucky I'm here.

Someone asks you for a favor you absolutely do not have time for. You… *

Say yes, then resent them (and yourself) all week.

Say yes, but with a sigh they'll definitely hear.

Say 'Let me check' — and usually talk yourself into it anyway.

Smile and say 'I can't — but I hope it works out!'

Be honest: when was the last time you did something purely for YOUR pleasure? *

I genuinely can't remember.

A few months ago, and I felt guilty the whole time.

Last week — small, but it counted.

This week. It's non-negotiable on my calendar.

Finish this sentence: 'My purpose in this season of life is…' *

Unclear. I'm still searching.

A little blurry, but I see pieces of it.

Getting clearer — I can almost name it.

Crystal clear. I'm living it on purpose.

A friend compliments your outfit. Your response? *

'Oh, this old thing? It was cheap.'

'Thanks!' (while mentally listing everything wrong with it)

'Thank you! I felt good in it today.'

'Thank you! I know — I look amazing.'

How do you feel about the word 'no'? *

It makes my stomach drop.

I can say it, but only after three drafts and a pep talk.

Getting easier — I'm practicing.

'No' is a complete sentence. Next question.

Your energy at the end of most days is… *

Running on fumes. Everyone got a piece of me but me.

Low — I collapse on the couch and call it 'rest.'

Decent — I'm learning to protect my energy.

Full — I give from my overflow, not my reserves.

If money, time, and other people's opinions were no object, you would… *

Honestly? I don't even let myself dream that big anymore.

I have a fuzzy dream I rarely say out loud.

I know exactly what it is — I'm building toward it.

I'm already doing it. The dream is the plan.

When you make a mistake, your inner voice says… *

'See? You can't do anything right.'

'Ugh, why did I do that?' (replays it for days)

'Okay, lesson learned. Moving on.'

'Even my mistakes are character development.'

Wendi's creed is 'Whatever the mind can conceive, you can achieve.' When you read that, you feel… *

A little sad — I used to believe that.

Hopeful — I want to believe it again.

Fired up — I'm proving it right now.

Seen — that's literally how I live.