First Name *

Last Name *

Phone *

Email *

When you think about being in a relationship again, what do you feel? *

Excited

Fearful

I'd rather stay home with my dog

When you think about past relationships that didn’t work out, what emotion comes up first? *

Bitterness or regret — I still feel hurt when I think about it

Confusion: I am not sure what went wrong

Acceptance: I can see the lessons and I am at peace with it

Which one is you when you evaluate your most recent relationship? *

I pay attention to what my partner did that hurt me

I analyze the part I played in the demise of the relationship

When was the last time you were in a healthy relationship? *

MC Hammer was on tour in his prime

1-3 years ago

Is Never Ever Ever an option?

How do you handle it when someone doesn’t meet your standards or boundaries? *

I make excuses or hope they’ll change

I communicate my needs clearly, even if it’s uncomfortable

I leave, but I often feel guilty afterward

How confident are you in your judgment when it comes to choosing a partner? *

Very — I trust myself and take time to evaluate compatibility.

Somewhat — I trust at first, then doubt later.

Not very — I tend to pick people who aren’t emotionally available.

When someone shows real interest in you, what’s your first instinct? *

I get excited and open up easily.

I start analyzing everything they say or do.

I lose interest once they show too much effort.

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