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Q1. When stress hits, your first instinct is to:
A – Help others before helping myself
B – Plan for every possible outcome
C – Take control and start organizing
D – Stay quiet and push through it
E – Handle everything because no one else will
Q2. Your biggest source of mental exhaustion is:
A – People needing too much from me
B – My mind replaying or predicting problems
C – Keeping everything running perfectly
D – Holding in emotions or worries
E – Being responsible for everything at home and work
Q3. Your relationship with boundaries is:
A – I say yes when I shouldn’t
B – I set them but worry people will be upset
C – I enforce them, then feel guilty
D – I rarely communicate them
E – I don’t have time to even think about them
Q4. When your schedule gets overwhelmed, you:
A – Keep helping others anyway
B – Create detailed plans to get ahead
C – Re-organize everything to regain control
D – Retreat and become quiet
E – Push harder because things won’t get done otherwise
Q5. What triggers your stress most often?
A – Disappointing others
B – Uncertainty
C – Chaos or poor planning
D – Emotional tension
E – Invisible responsibilities piling up
Q6. Your nightly overthinking usually sounds like:
A – Did I let someone down today?
B – What if ___ happens tomorrow?
C – Did I do everything perfectly?
D – I should just handle this myself.
E – There is too much on me; no one sees it.
Q7. People describe you as:
A – Caring and reliable
B – Prepared and thoughtful
C – Organized and capable
D – Calm and patient
E – Strong and dependable
Q8. When conflict happens, you typically:
A – Smooth things over
B – Analyze what went wrong
C – Take charge to fix it
D – Withdraw
E – Absorb the responsibility
Q9. What do you most wish you could let go of?
A – Constant people-pleasing
B – Mental spiraling
C – Always being in control
D – Emotional weight
E – The unending to-do list
Q10. Which describes your ideal form of stress relief?
A – Feeling appreciated
B – Quieting my mind
C – Restoring order
D – Feeling emotionally safe
E – Having fewer responsibilities
Q11. In your professional life, your biggest stressor is:
A – Being the “go-to” for everyone
B – Pressure to not make mistakes
C – Being expected to manage everything
D – Carrying emotional labor at work
E – Doing hidden work no one notices
Q12. When someone asks how you’re doing, you usually:
A – Say “I’m fine” and focus on them
B – Give a quick answer and mentally continue problem-solving
C – Stay composed and factual
D – Say as little as possible
E – Say “busy” because it’s always true