Find Your Orgasm IQ

Discover your intimacy strengths — and where to grow.

When was the last time you had an open, honest conversation with your partner about what feels good for you sexually?

A) Recently — we talk about it openly.

B) Once in a while, but it’s uncomfortable.

C) Honestly, never.

How confident are you in your knowledge of sexual anatomy (clitoris, G-spot, pudendal nerve, etc.)?

A) Very confident — I know my way around.

B) Somewhat — I’ve heard of these but don’t know them well.

C) Not confident — I’ve mostly relied on guesswork or porn.

When it comes to self-pleasure (masturbation), you would say:

A) I explore regularly and know what works for me.

B) I’ve tried a little, but it feels awkward.

C) I don’t really do it or avoid it altogether.

In your current sex life, how often do you or your partner reach orgasm?

A) Most of the time — it’s consistent.

B) Sometimes — hit or miss.

C) Rarely or never — it’s a struggle.

How comfortable are you exploring new things (toys, oral sex, different techniques, sensual environments)?

A) Comfortable — we experiment and enjoy it.

B) Curious but hesitant.

C) Uncomfortable — I usually stick to what I know.

When sex doesn’t go as planned (e.g., erectile issues, lack of orgasm, or discomfort), how do you and/or your partner respond?

A) We talk about it and try again with patience.

B) We avoid talking about it, hoping it gets better.

C) It usually leads to frustration, silence, or blame.

What best describes your overall intimacy journey right now?

A) Thriving — we’re growing together and learning.

B) Stuck — something is missing, but I don’t know what.

C) Struggling — I feel disconnected or unfulfilled.