Where should we email your results? *

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How would you describe your MOST COMMON relationship experiences? *

I put others first and hold back what I really need

I'm guarded and struggle to fully trust and let them in once I notice flaw

I feel like I'm not good enough to be chosen and find the security I need

There's chemistry, but I question whether I'm valued beyond attraction

I avoid intimate relationships because being seen or rejected feels risky

I compare my relationships with the ideal I have in my mind

I rely on my partner's opinions or support to feel confident

I tend to take the lead because I feel safer knowing things are handled

What's been your biggest recurring challenge in relationships? *

Expressing my wants and needs without feeling guilty

Giving grace to someone when I notice their flaws

Feeling secure without having to seek reassurance, apply pressure or prove my worth

Feeling valued beyond my attractiveness or charm

Letting someone know the real me

Trusting what I feel instead of what I think should be ideal

Trusting my intuition especially when things aren't going well

Relaxing without being the one to make sure everything will turn out fine

How do these patterns show up in your money or career? *

I give a lot but struggle to ask for more, even when I know I deserve it

I avoid collaborative opportunities and prefer to rely on myself

I know I've accomplished a lot yet I feel like I'm always chasing money or striving to feel secure

My confidence depends on feeling recognized or admired

I hold back from opportunities where I'll be visible

I compare my success with the life I think I should have

I stay in draining or underpaid situations because change feels difficult

I play things safe with a plan that feels predictable and within my control

Which experience feels MOST familair when it comes to love? *

I silence my wants and needs to keep the connection

I focus on what's wrong, struggle to trust and give grace

I feel like I have to prove I'm worthy of commitment

I confuse being desired with being deeply valued and loved

I hold back to protect myself from rejection and disappointment

I focus on what I think the relationship should be instead of what feels good right now

I doubt my decisions when my partner disagrees

I attract commitment from partners who fit easily into my world

How have you MOST often settled for less than you wanted in relationships? *

By minimizing my voice to keep the peace

By judging flaws and walking away instead of communication and building trust

By doing more, applying pressure, and hoping they'll finally make me feel secure

By choosing chemistry over deeper connection and being valued

By holding back instea of letting someone truly know me

By chasing my ideal instead of trusting what I have as good enough

By staying because I doubt I can manage on my own

By choosing what's practical over what I truly desire

When you think about earning more or expanding your career, what feels MOST true? *

I hesitate to ask for more because I don't want to be a burden or cause conflict

I focus on what could go wrong and past mistakes to avoid taking a chance

I believe more money will finally help me to feel secure

I want to feel successful or recognized to trust my value

I hold back from expansive opportunities because I fear judgment or rejection

I struggle to commit to my ideal path if it doesn't seem logical and responsible

I find it hard to make big changes without someone else's support or approval

I take opportunities that allows me to feel in control of avoiding financial risk

Which belief BEST reflects your experience of love? *

"If I ask for too much, I might lose the connection."

"If I don't focus on flaws now, I'll get hurt later."

"Once I have the relationship I need, I'll feel secure."

"Being desired helps me feel valuable."

"If people knew the real me, they might reject me."

"I need to know this is the right ideal relationship before I can commit."

"I need a partner who's decisive and can help me make decisions."

"I feel safer when my partner fits into my world and goes along with my plan."

What question have you asked yourself most often? *

"How can I ask for what I want without being a burden or conflict?

"Is this something that could wrong that I need to pay attention to?"

"What more do I need before I feel secure and finally have enough?"

"How can I put myself out there without being rejected?"

"I know what I should have but what do I really want?"

"Can I trust myself to move forward on my own?"

"How do I get what I want exactly how I want it?"

How does fear affect your ability to create the life you want? *

I hold back from asking for what I need

I avoid change and question opportunities by overly judging potential problems

I unknowingly keep moving the goal post and never actually feel secure or settled

I seek attention or physical connection to reassure myself of my value

I avoid visibility and opportunities where I may be judged or disappointed

I compare possibilities and lose touch with what my heart truly wants

If I feel like I can't control outcome I continue what feels steady and predictable

What's your biggest money challenge right now? *

Asking for more or receiving what I deserve without feeling guilty

Trusting an opportunity without scrutinizing everything

Feeling relaxed and secure with money, especially as money grows

Feeling valuable without needing external recognition

Pursuing better opportunities despite fear of judgment

Building the life I actually want instead of what I think is the logical choice

Making bigger financial shifts without relying on someone else's support

Growing my money even if it requires risk

How do you typically respond to conflict? *

I suppress my voice, often agreeable and keep the peace

I avoid conflict but mentally focus on what's wrong and become very critical

I'm not afriad of conflict and try to prove my point until I'm heard

I seek reassurance that I'm still wanted

I withdraw to avoid conflict, judgment or rejection

I question whether the relationship is right for me and mentally escape

I'm not conflict avoidant but I take it deeply personal when someone disagrees with me

I take charge of the problem to restore order and certainty

What would you most like to change about your experience of love, money and life? *

Expressing my wants and needs without fear or guilt

Trusting and giving grace without looking for what's wrong

Feeling secure without always needing more proof and reassurance

Knowing my value beyond attention or surface level admiration

Feeling comfortable being seen and taking up space

Trusting my intuition instead of choosing the logical ideal

Trusting my decisions without needing someone to partner or lead me

Feeling secure enoug to embrace the unknown even if someone else leads