Change Maker Score Card

Is control getting in the way of connection at your house?

The 3-minute quiz to find out what's in the way — and how to fix it.

It's hard to relax until everyone else in my house is happy — even if I'm not. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I see things going wrong in our marriage or parenting, but I stay quiet because I've been told I'm overreacting. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I'm afraid my kids or husband will miss something important without my advice. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I don't really feel heard until I'm crying or raising my voice. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I avoid firm discipline because I am afraid my kids will feel stupid, scared or embarrassed. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

When something needs done, I tell myself, "It's just easier if I handle it myself." *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I catch myself reaching for my phone to scroll social media because my home is overwhelming. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I wait longer than I should to address issues - because I don't want to start another argument. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

When my husband is harsh with the kids, I want to go explain that he loves them and help them feel better. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I wish people would listen before I'm so angry that I'm yelling. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I often think, "If I don't do it, no one will." *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I avoid following through with a consequence because my kid will melt down or blow up. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I wish my husband cared more about how people feel. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I'm afraid my kids are growing up the same way I did. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

I worry my kids don't know how loved they are. *

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost Always

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