Take This 60 Second Quiz to Find Out Why You Were Betrayed

In relationships, I usually ... *

Try to fix their problems even when I’m drained

Do whatever I can to keep the peace

Struggle to trust or open up fully

Feel like I lose myself and stop speaking up

Over-perform and fear they’ll leave if I mess up

When someone crosses my boundaries ... *

I try to solve it for them to “fix” the situation

I over-explain, then still feel bad

I pull away completely or ghost them

I barely notice until I’m overwhelmed

I feel guilty for not being more perfect

Growing up, I felt loved when I ... *

Helped or took care of others

Made everyone happy and behaved well

Didn’t need anything from anyone

Stayed quiet and kept to myself

Got good grades or praise for achievements

When I feel triggered emotionally ... *

I immediately go into problem-solving mode

I try to smooth it over, even if it hurts me

I lash out or control the situation

I get quiet and isolate

I criticize myself for feeling this way

I often struggle with ... *

Being responsible for everyone’s healing

Saying no or asking for what I want

Letting people in or trusting them

Feeling emotionally numb or checked out

Feeling like I’m never good enough

When someone hurts me, I usually ... *

Try to understand and help them anyway

Blame myself or think I wasn’t kind enough

Get angry but keep it to myself

Shut down and never tell them

Replay the situation wondering what I did wrong

The way I love myself is ... *

Working hard to fix what’s broken

Giving everything to others, hoping to feel full

Keeping control so no one hurts me

Not really sure—I avoid that question

Always pushing for more growth and results

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Healing Archetype

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