What’s Standing Between You and Your Ultimate Self?

You’ve spent years showing up for everyone else — and somewhere along the way, you may have lost sight of you. This short quiz will help you understand your current relationship with personal growth and change.

Whether you embrace transformation or avoid it at all costs, you’re not alone — and you’re not stuck. Your results will point you toward next steps and give you a glimpse of how other women just like you are rediscovering who they’re meant to be.

Start by entering your name and email below — and let’s explore what’s standing between you and your ultimate self.

1. When a new opportunity comes your way (a class, a group, a challenge), what’s your irst reaction?

Let’s go — I’m always looking for new experiences.

I’m interested but I need to think about it.

I usually pass. I like my routine and don’t want to rock the boat.

2. How do you feel about the phrase, “Your best self is outside your comfort zone”?

100% agree — I’ve experienced it myself.

I understand it, but honestly, I like my comfort zone.

That sounds exhausting. Why can’t my best self be right here?

3. When you look at the next chapter of your life, what comes to mind?

Excitement. I inally have time to focus on me.

Uncertainty. I want more but I’m not sure what that looks like.

Fear. I’m not ready to think about it yet.

4. How often do you do something just for you — not for your partner, kids, job, or friends?

Regularly. I protect that time.

Occasionally. I try, but it slips down the list.

Rarely. It feels selfish or impractical.

5. When was the last time you tried something completely new?

Within the last month. I love new experiences.

It’s been a while, but I’m open to it.

I can’t remember — it’s just not my thing.

6. Which best describes your relationship with personal development (books, podcasts, journaling, etc.)?

I actively seek it out and enjoy it.

I engage when something really resonates.

I ind most of it overwhelming or out of touch.

7. You find yourself with a quiet, free afternoon. What do you most want to do?

Try something that pushes me creatively or emotionally.

Relax, maybe read or relect — something easygoing.

Distract myself with TV or chores. Unstructured time is hard.

8. Someone close to you says you’ve changed. How does that land with you?

I hope so! Change means I’m growing.

I’d be curious what they meant — not sure how I’d feel.

That would make me uncomfortable. I like being who I’ve always been.

9. When you reflect on the idea of “rediscovering yourself,” what’s your honest response?

That excites me. I know there’s more to explore.

It makes me a little nervous — but also curious.

It sounds like work I’m not sure I want to do.

10. If you had the support of a warm, growth-minded community, how likely would you be to step into something new?

Very likely. I do better with others by my side.

Somewhat likely. It would help, but I’d still be cautious.

Not very likely. I’m more of a solo person.

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