First Name *

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When you first meet someone you're interested in, you're most drawn to: (copy) *

Men who are a bit distant, hard to read, or take time to warm up

Men who seem like they've been through a lot or need support/understanding

Men who are stable, reliable, and consistent—even if there's no spark

Men who seem impressive or "perfect on paper" but you start noticing small flaws

Men with strong personalities—you find yourself naturally adapting to their energy

Three months into a relationship, you usually feel: *

Anxious—constantly wondering where you stand or if he's pulling away

Exhausted—you're giving more emotional support than you're receiving

Restless—something's missing but you can't quite name what

Critical—you've noticed things that don't meet your standards or expectations

Lost—you're not sure who you are anymore in this dynamic

When there's tension or conflict in a relationship, you typically: *

Over-explain, accommodate, and try harder to make him happy

Try to fix the problem and help him process his feelings

Minimize your own needs to avoid conflict or keep the peace

Point out what he's doing wrong or withdraw emotionally

Apologize and adjust your behaviour, even if you're not sure what you did wrong

The phrase that best describes your dating history is: *

"I fall for potential and end up disappointed"

"I'm attracted to men who need me"

"I settle because I'm afraid of being alone"

"No one ever quite measures up"

"I lose myself trying to be what he wants"

When a relationship ends, you usually think: *

"If I had just tried harder or been better, he would have stayed"

"I gave everything and he still couldn't appreciate me"

"I knew it wasn't right but I stayed anyway"

"He couldn't handle my standards" or "I knew he wasn't the one"

"I don't even know who I was in that relationship"

Your biggest fear in relationships is: *

Being abandoned or not being chosen

Being taken advantage of or not being valued

Being alone or never finding anyone

Being vulnerable and getting hurt

Being rejected for who I really am

You feel most "alive" in a relationship when: *

You're chasing someone or trying to win them over

You're helping him through something or being his support system

Things are calm and stable, even if a bit boring

You're maintaining your independence and don't need anyone

You feel like you're exactly what he's looking for

When someone shows consistent interest and effort, you: *

Start to feel less attracted—it feels too easy

Wonder what they need from you or what's wrong with them

Feel relieved and grateful—finally someone steady

Look for what's wrong with them or why they're not quite right

Feel safe and start molding yourself to keep their interest

Your friends would say you: *

Give too many chances to men who don't deserve them

Always end up playing therapist or Mother in your relationships

Stay in relationships longer than you should

Are "too picky" or have walls up

Change depending on who you're dating

When you think about your ideal relationship, you: *

Want someone who makes me feel chosen and irreplaceable

Want someone who sees and appreciates everything I give

Want someone who's just... there, consistently

Want someone who matches my vision and doesn't disappoint

Want someone who loves me for exactly who I am

The pattern you notice most in your relationships is: *

I chase emotionally unavailable men who keep me at a distance

I attract men who take more than they give

I ignore red flags because I don't want to start over

I find something wrong with everyone I meet

I become whoever he needs me to be, then resent it

If you're honest, the reason you stay in relationships that don't feel right is: *

I keep hoping he'll change or finally see my worth

I feel like I've invested so much, I can't give up now

I'm afraid I won't find anyone better

I don't—I leave when things aren't right

I don't even realize it's wrong until I'm deep in

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