Find out what's keeping you from feeling free

As you go through the questions, you might see yourself in more than one answer. If so, choose the one that feels most like you overall, or simply go with your first instinct.

I'm the kind of texter that...

Marks it as a to-do list item and will get to it in order of priority

Rereads the text three times before sending so it says exactly what I mean

Adds exclamation points and emojis so nothing sounds harsh!!

Fact checks any statements so nothing is incorrect

Rewrites it 5 times from different angles so it comes off the way I want it to

We're the same type of weird if...

You've said "no worries!" while actively worrying

You've mapped out the route and how long it will take to your appointment so that your day is perfectly planned by the minute

You base your outfits on what everyone else will be wearing

Your rest days have goals too

You spend more time wondering if you did something right than in doing the thing

Planning a vacation with me means...

The whole trip gets built around what everyone else wants to do

A packed itinerary. If we don't see everything, what was the point of coming?

A lot of quiet worrying about picking the wrong hotel, the wrong restaurants, the wrong everything

Destinations chosen partly by how Instagrammable they are

Everything booked months out — flights, rooms, seat selection locked. Nothing left to chance

My role in the friend group...

The one who always seems to be doing something

The one who likes to make sure everything is optimized

The group therapist who rarely brings her own problems

The one always asking how to do things properly

The one who seems to live 12 different lives

Dating me is like...

Dating someone who checks all your boxes. The real me unlocks around month six

Dating someone who seems to be good at everything

Dating someone who is always prepared with a magic purse of everything you need

Dating someone who has a five-year plan for us by date two

Dating someone who is easy, fun, and will rarely argue with you

The key to my heart is...

Noticing I'm doing too much and making me sit down

Celebrating my wins longer than I do (about five minutes)

Not making a big deal of it when I try something new and I'm bad at it

Complimenting me when I haven't done anything impressive — and meaning it

Sending me a calendar invite for our plans

When someone praises my work in front of everyone...

I replay it all day. Being seen like that feels incredible — and I already want the next one

I'm waiting for the "but"

"Oh — honestly, the team did most of it"

Mostly relief that it went exactly how I planned

Nice — and I'm already thinking about the thing I haven't finished

The biggest risk I've ever taken...

Posting the photo where I look happy instead of good

Going first — before I knew for sure I was doing it right

Sending a text that was just "no." No exclamation point, no explanation.

Letting someone else plan the trip. Once.

A vacation day with nothing scheduled. I lasted until 10am

When I finally get the big thing I've worked years for...

Quietly celebrate, I don't want to rub it in anyone's face

Happy for about a day. Then: okay, what's next

I nitpick about how to do it better next time

A subtle dread that now I have to live up to it

The announcement matters almost as much as the thing itself

My greatest strength...

Making it look effortless. (It is not effortless.)

I have never once embarrassed myself. That's the entire strategy

If I'm the one planning it, nothing goes wrong. Nothing is allowed to go wrong

Reading a room like it's my full-time job.

I get things DONE. Feeling good about them, however...

This year, I really want to...

Finally try the thing I've been "about to try" for three years

Stop caring what people think. (Am I saying that because it sounds good? ...maybe)

Honestly, ask me next month — the list keeps growing

Feel less anxiety about forgetting something

Figure out what I actually want. Not what everyone else wants — what I want

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