How Fulfilled Do You Really Feel in Your Sex Life?

In about 2 minutes you'll know exactly where you are on the Sex Life Meter — and what's getting in the way of the intimacy you crave. Your answers are private, confidential, and surrounded with love. Click "Next" to begin.

1. How happy are you with how often you orgasm? *

Rarely or never satisfied. Ugh… I’m starved— my orgasm plate is basically empty.

Sometimes satisfied. It’s hit or miss — Some weeks feel nourishing, others leave me hungry.

Mostly satisfied. It’s good — I’m getting dessert, but I would love even more sweetness.

Completely satisfied. Totally blissed out — perfectly nourished and loving every bite.

2. How many orgasms do you typically have per week? (Think about the last month—solo and partnered) *

0 – None... Orgasms? What orgasms? My bed is quieter than a meditation retreat!

1–7.... A few each week — enough to keep me smiling, but I wouldn’t say no to more.

8–29... I’m pretty much an Orgasm Queen.

30+... Overflowing with multi orgasmic bliss — I’m practically radiating fireworks!

Note: There’s no “right” number. Your ideal is unique to you.

3. How true is this for you? “I feel starved for touch, love, and connection.” *

Totally true — I’m in a love-and-touch famine over here!

Somewhat true Yeah… I could definitely use a lot more hugs, kisses, and closeness.

A little true. I’m doing okay — but a little extra TLC wouldn’t hurt.

Not at all. I feel completely fed, nourished, and overflowing with love, touch, and connection.

4. How deeply do you feel wanted and desired in your sex life? *

Rarely or never. Ugh… I feel more like a forgotten houseplant than a desired woman.

Sometimes. I see occasional glimpses of feeling wanted. But many days… crickets.

Often. Oh yes, I feel wanted — but I wish it were even more passionate.

Intensely. I’m like a mermaid swimming in a sea of love - feeling deeply desired and treasured.

5. How many different types of orgasms have you explored? (Examples: Clitoral, G-spot, cervical, nipplegasm, heartgasm, full body orgasm, energygasm, moneygasm, etc.) *

Just one or two – and yep, I’m sooo curious for more.

A few – I’ve dipped my toes in, but I’m craving more adventure.

Several – I’ve explored a bunch but know there’s still more magic ahead.

All of them, Babe! I’m an orgasmic explorer!

6. How long is your typical intimate experience? *

Quickie. 5-15 minutes. It's over before I've even warmed up — and I'm left wanting so much more.

We go 20-30 minutes. I can feel my body starting to wake up and then... it stops.

We go 45-60 minutes — and it feels good. But I know my body is capable of something far more expansive and we haven't quite gotten there yet.

Long luxurious lovemaking. We take hours. I arrive fully in my body and leave completely satisfied.

7. How lit up do you feel in your daily life? Think of your joy, confidence, creativity, and financial abundance. *

Rarely or never. Honestly? I feel “meh,” dull or drained most days. Like I’ve lost my spark.

Sometimes. I notice hints of joy in my life.

Often. I feel inspired and energized most days — but I know there’s more possible.

Totally. I’m totally lit up — glowing with joy, confidence, creativity, and abundance!

8. How often do you receive clear intuitive hits, creative inspiration, or what I call Orgasmic Ideas — those electric downloads that feel like pure genius? *

Rarely. My mind feels foggy and stuck most days.

Sometimes. I get flashes of intuition or creativity but they're inconsistent.

Often. Intuitive hits and creative ideas come to me regularly but I know there's more possible.

All the time. I'm practically overflowing with downloads and genius ideas I can hardly keep up with.

9. How comfortable are you owning and expressing your sexual desires?

I keep my desires almost entirely hidden. I feel shame or embarrassment about how much I want.

I share some of what I want but hold back the full truth of my desire.

I'm fairly open about my desires but still have edges of discomfort.

I own my desires fully and express them without shame or apology.

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