It makes me nervous when my partner gets too emotionally close. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I often worry that my partner will stop loving me. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I want deep closeness with my partner, but when I actually get it, I feel the urge to pull away. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

My independence is more important to me than my relationships. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

An argument with my partner causes me to question our entire relationship. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

It's hard for me to believe that someone who loves me won't eventually hurt me. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

Sometimes people see me as boring because I am so even keel in relationships. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I get uneasy when other people depend on me emotionally. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

When I show my partner how I feel, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I push my partner away when I'm hurt, then panic that they might actually leave. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I find that I bounce back quickly after a breakup. I can put someone out of my mind and move on pretty easily. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

During a fight, I swing between desperately trying to fix things and completely shutting down. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I need frequent reassurance from my partner that they are committed to the relationship. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

I tend to fall fast and fantasize about our future in the beginning of a relationship but get overwhelmed or lose interest after a while. *

Frequently

Sometimes

Rarely

Never or almost never

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