We’d love to consider you for a featured Single Spotlight on our @iykyk.dating Instagram.

We are very selective about who we highlight, and we receive a high volume of requests, so this helps us make sure we’re highlighting the right people.

How this works:

1. Fill out this application so we can understand you and your story

2. If selected, we will send you a simple iPhone video shot list (nothing professional needed)

3. You upload your clips to a Google Drive we provide (within 20 days of being selected)

4. We edit everything and get your full approval before posting

If selected, we will reach out!

- Mel New IYKYK Dating

Full Name *

What do you believe is required for someone to go to heaven? *

Be a good person and live a moral life

Have faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior

Be baptized & go to church

Which statement best reflects your view of the Bible? *

The Bible is the inspired, authoritative Word of God and should guide every area of life

The Bible is inspired by God but should be interpreted flexibly depending on circumstances

The Bible contains wisdom but is not necessarily authoritative

I’m still figuring out what I believe

Which best describes your current situation regarding children? *

I have kids and want more.

I have kids and do not want more.

No kids yet, but I want children.

No kids and I do not want children.

I’m open to having children or not having children.

Are you open to dating someone who already has children? *

Yes

Which best describes your comfort level with having pets in the home? *

I have pets and a future partner must be willing and able to live with them.

I enjoy pets and would like to have them in the home, but I’m flexible.

I would prefer not to have pets in the home, but it’s not a deal breaker.

I cannot comfortably live with pets due to allergies, health concerns, or strong personal preference.

Which best describes your preference regarding pets in a potential match’s home? *

Must be comfortable living with pets.

Prefer someone who enjoys pets.

Prefer someone who does not have pets.

No strong preference.

Do you have any tattoos? *

Yes, a few small ones

Yes, they’re very visible / noticeable

How do you feel about tattoos on a potential match? *

Tattoos are a dealbreaker. I prefer someone with no tattoos

I prefer little to no tattoos, but a few small ones are okay

I’m okay with visible tattoos

I like tattoos. they’re a plus for me!

I don’t have a preference either way

What do you think about premarital sex? We’re not looking for perfect people- we’re looking for honest ones. We match based on alignment, not perfection. *

I believe in waiting and am currently walking that out, even if it hasn’t always been perfect

I don't believe in casual sex, but it's ok as long as we're engaged/going to get married

Sex before marriage is not wrong

Thoughts on alcohol? *

I don't drink

I drink socially, but can't remember the last time I was tipsy/drunk

I'll get a little drunk, but at special occasions like a wedding or a big celebration 🎉

I like to party!

What do you do for work? *

What’s your political party? *

Republican

Democrat

Independent

idc about politics

Would you only date someone who shares your political views? *

Yes

I’m open depending on the person

Have you ever been married before? *

Yes, I’m divorced

Yes, I’m widowed

No, I’ve never been married

Which best describes your preference regarding a potential match’s marital history? *

Must have never been married

Open to widowed, but not divorced

Open to divorced or widowed depending on the circumstances

No strong preference

What's the youngest person you would date if everything else was perfect? *

What's the oldest person you would date if everything else was perfect? *

If you met the right person TODAY, how quickly would you want to get engaged? *

No more than 1.5 years, probably faster

At least 2 years- you really need to know someone

I’d want to take it one step at a time

Do you meet with someone older and more spiritually mature than you for guidance, wisdom, accountability, and discipleship? *

Yes, at least once per month

Yes, every couple of months

I usually do, but I am currently in transition or looking for a mentor

No, but I would like to

This is not currently a priority in this season of life

What would be your minimum expectation for a potential match’s involvement with a spiritual mentor? *

Meets with a mentor at least once per month

Meets with a mentor every couple of months

Has had a mentor in the past but does not currently

No preference

When did your last relationship end? *

I've never been in a relationship

Less than 3 months ago

3-6 months ago

More than 6 months ago

How often do you attend church in person? *

Every week

A few times a month

Occasionally

What is the minimum church attendance habit you would require in a potential match? *

Every week

A few times a month

Occasionally

No preference

How tall are you? *

What’s the shortest person you would date if everything else was perfect? *

What’s the tallest person you would date if everything else was perfect? *

What denomination Christian are you? *

(Check all that apply.)

Which denominations would you not be open to dating? *

What are your beliefs around the gifts of the Spirit (like tongues, prophecy, etc.)? *

They are active today and part of normal Christian life

I’m open to them, but still figuring out what I believe

They were primarily for the early church and are not active today

Which best describes your preference for a potential match’s beliefs regarding the gifts of the Spirit? *

They need to actively operate in the gifts

They need to be open to the gifts even if they do not actively operate in them

They need to hold a cessationist view

I have no preference

Are you open to a long-distance relationship? *

Heck Yes

Probably Not

Could you realistically relocate within the next 2 years if you met the right person? *

Heck Yes!

Probably Not

Do you currently attend a weekly Bible study/small group/life group? *

Yes

I usually am, but currently in transition/taking a break

It is not currently a priority

What is the minimum level of Bible study or small group involvement you would require in a potential match? *

Attends regularly

Usually attends but is currently in transition

No preference

How would you describe your current involvement in Sunday morning church service roles? (This includes serving in roles that help the church run such as production, worship, children’s ministry, hospitality, prayer team, etc.) *

Serving regularly (2+ times per month)

Serving occasionally

I’m in transition but planning on serving again ASAP

Not currently serving but regularly attending church

What current involvement in Sunday morning church service roles would be the minimum you would require in a potential match? *

Serving regularly

Serving occasionally

In transition but planning to serve again ASAP

No preference

How would you describe your approach to tithing and financial generosity? *

I consistently tithe at least 10% of my income and regularly give above and beyond that through additional generosity regardless of my financial situation

I consistently tithe at least 10% of my income regardless of my financial situation

I believe tithing is important, but it is an area where I need to grow in consistency

I would like to tithe, but my current financial situation makes that difficult

Which best describes your minimum requirement for a potential match’s approach to tithing and financial generosity? *

They tithe at least 10% and regularly give above and beyond that through additional generosity

They consistently tithe at least 10%

They believe tithing is important but are still growing in consistency

It is okay if they are unable to tithe due to financial hardship

List some accomplishments (don't be humble lol) *

Do you own any property? If so, what? *

What are some of your dreams/visions/goals for your life? *

What do you like to do when you're not working? List some hobbies. *

Is there anything else you'd like to know about a potential match? *

Anything else you'd like to share?

Age *

ⓘ Providing an incorrect ZIP code will affect your eligibility for current and future matchmaking opportunities.

Enter your 5-digit U.S. ZIP code. If you live outside the U.S., please enter 99999. *

Instagram Handle (if you have one) *