What’s the state of your marriage right now?
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We’re still together, but she’s struggling to move past what happened
She’s talking about separation or divorce
We’ve separated, but I want to save the marriage
Divorce has been filed, but I want to save the marriage
I’m not sure I want to stay in the marriage
Has your affair ended?
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Yes, it ended within the last 3 months
Yes, it ended 3–12 months ago
Yes, it ended more than a year ago
It’s mostly over, but there’s still some contact
No, it’s still ongoing
Do you take responsibility for your role in what happened?
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Yes. I know I caused this and I’m ready to do the work
Mostly, but I feel she’s also responsible for where we are
No. I think she needs to get over it
What have you already tried to repair the marriage? (choose all that apply)
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Couples counseling or marriage therapy
Individual therapy
Books, podcasts or programs
Giving her space
Nothing yet
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