Thank you for sharing that with us.

Successful mediation depends a lot on the foundation the process is built on, and we want to make sure every couple we work with gets the right kind of support for where they are right now.

Based on what you've shared, we think you might be better served by a mediator who also has a background in mental health and who is specifically trained to work with high-conflict couples — which can make a real difference in your situation.

We'd encourage you to continue exploring your options, as there are mediators out there whose approach may be a wonderful fit for where you are in this process.

In the meantime, our Divorce Preparation Kits & Courses are available to anyone in the United States and may help you gain clarity and feel more prepared as you navigate next steps — regardless of which path you ultimately choose.

We genuinely wish you both the very best as you move forward.